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Abstract

Parenting styles within military families had implications towards their children’s behav- ior. Previous studies discussed on the parenting pattern but few has associated it with the fundamental change of Indonesian military organization post Reformation era. Therefore, this article discusses the difference of parenting pattern in the military family before and after the Reformation, and its impact towards children’s behavior. The argument is based on that change of fundamental values in the Indonesian military in New Order and post Reformation era is aligned with the changing of parenting in the military family. Those changes most likely affected the children’s behavior indirectly. In this article we use the case of parents from the military family who joined military in the New Order and post Reformation. The method used in the research for this article is qualitative method where data are gathered by conducting in-depth interviews with the respondents consist of father, mother and child from military families both from New Order era and post Reformation era who live in Depok City. This article shows that parenting style in the New Order and post Reformation military family in between democratic and authoritarian style.

Bahasa Abstract

Pola asuh keluarga militer berimplikasi terhadap pola perilaku anak sebagai mana ditun- jukkan oleh beberapa yang lebih banyak membahas mengenai pola asuh tanpa melihat adanya hubungan dengan perubahan struktur organisasi yang bersifat fundamental pada tubuh militer Indonesia pasca Reformasi. Oleh karena itu, artikel ini kemudian membahas tentang perbedaan pola asuh yang diterapkan pada keluarga militer di era Orde Baru dan pasca Reformasi serta implikasinya terhadap pola perilaku anak. Hal ini didasarkan pada argumentasi bahwa sejalan dengan perubahan nilai-nilai di dalam tubuh militer Indonesia di masa Orde Baru dan pascareformasi, terjadi juga perubahan pola asuh dalam keluarga anggota militer. Artikel ini menggunakan kasus pada keluarga militer yang orang tuanya bergabung dengan militer pada era Orde Baru dan pasca Reformasi. Artikel ditulis ber- dasarkan penelitian kualitatif di mana data dikumpulkan dengan wawancara mendalam pada keluarga militer era Orde Baru dan pasca Reformasi yang keluarganya terdiri dari ayah, ibu, dan anak yang tinggal di Kota Depok. Artikel menunjukkan bahwa nuansa pola asuh pada keluarga militer Orde Baru dan pasca Reformasi berada pada antara pola yang bersifat demokratis dan otoriter.

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